By Karen - 25 August 2021
In terms of being overthink, Eastern and Western cultures have something in common.
He didn't call you, maybe he was busy, maybe he accidentally lost your phone, or maybe he was waiting for you to call. The only possibility that you don't want to think about or don't want to think about is that he doesn't want to call at all.
Your friends will comfort you in this way, or that you are willing to be comforted by them in this way, you are used to self-deception with each other, or they think this is a white lie.
GIGI is innocent and straightforward, and makes no secret of his eagerness to wait for someone to love him. He does not let go of every opportunity that may meet the real man, but often meets vulgar men.
Beth has lived together for 7 years and has been waiting to enter the marriage hall, but her boyfriend is a man who does not trust marriage.
Janine is the only person among the three who got married, so she often acts as a love consultant, but forgets how coercive and lured she was in the first place to get the other person to come to today. Twisted melons are not necessarily sweet, so the other party's derailment is not just the temptation of blonde beauty.
Anna is a girl who doesn't know what she wants. When she gets dumped when she is lonely, she goes to the person who loves herself, but getting married is of course the one she loves. Although the one you love doesn't necessarily love yourself.
Mary is a bit similar to GIGI, but not as young and cute as the latter, surrounded by a group of gays, and can only find seemingly real love in the less real networks.
The ending is of course very good, the kind we guessed, but, is it true, at least I don't believe it anymore.
We may have been unable to find a partner, and even if we find it, we may not get married. Even if we are married, the other party may cheat. We went from GIGI to Beth to Janine, or, simply GIGI to Mary.
However, these do not hinder anything. GIGI smiles brightly from beginning to end. Calling when you want to call, and looking for the other person when you want to, when you meet the second man, he asks the other person who will give first. Calling, the scared man fled, she turned back to her seat and tore off the other party's business card.
When I wanted to cheer for her, she started to use tape to collage the business card.
At first, you were laughing at her stupidity, and later, you started to admire her for her bravery.
Beth has always been the calmest one until she began to understand that that man might never marry herself. She left halfway through her sister's wedding and was recalled by the father who loved her. At the prom, her father had a heart attack. When I got out of bed, there was no man to support my family. My brother-in-law was discussing which Dad's favorite record could be taken home. Faced with a mess, she began to understand that it is better to marry an unreliable man than not to marry. At least the man is right. Taking good care of you can make you feel at ease.
Janine Tortoise, domineering, such a woman is actually not suitable for marriage, just because she is afraid, she must hold on to the driftwood, even if the other party cheats, she feels that it is her own mistake, until the collapse of trust, she sweeps the other party out.
For things we don't confirm, we always look for various reasons to support it, even citing classics. Find the answers that let us do this from books, movies, and love legends with others. We all think that we are different, but we don't know that exceptions are called exceptions because of their rare occurrence. We have never hit 5 million, so how can we hope to be hit by 100% love.
Although cruel, but really, the biggest possibility is that he actually doesn't like you that much.
So he is ambiguous, keep a safe distance, you can run after him, but you need to endure the wounds all over, of course, you may also be touched by him, chance? I don't know, maybe it will be a little bit more than the 5 million.
No matter what, what I have to believe is that all this is really not my fault.
In fact, love is not so mysterious and unpredictable, it is just a lie that I made up for myself. Think about how many times the person you like, you think you like it very much, but because you think the other person likes yourself too, every expression and action of his are misunderstood by you after processing. He creates an ambiguous fog that makes you fascinated. You think you are in love, but you finally find that it is just the emperor's new outfit.
What you love is a myth made up by yourself.
So, don't be passionate at any time, remember.
Believe that if he really loves you, he will come to you, if he does not come, it means He's Just Not That Into You
Sometimes it hurts to be true, but please believe
